Saturday, April 21, 2018

Being Dominant in Bed as a Man

Regardless of what any social justice warrior may tell you – men and women are distinctive creatures that have their own tastes and preferences. This is not to say that there isn’t any overlap, but the fact of the matter is that, on average, both many and women are unique in their own ways as representatives of the two genders. Well, you might ask how does this relate to your sexual relationship? It relates in a big way.

As a man, in most cases, you will have to learn to lead. If there is one thing that attracts women it’s if the man is a leader. And this can easily translate in the bed. You need to do away with any notions that you may have about treating the woman as a princess during this time. Of course, there is a subset of women that may like this – but the vast majority of women want to feel masculine, dominant energy when they are in bed with a man. It will be a bad sexual experience for her.

So, the first rule of thumb is to never be hesitant as to what to do next while in bed. The worst thing that you could do while you’re having sex is to ask questions. Granted, this wouldn’t surprise us if it’s something that you think you should do. The fact of the matter is that many men are actively demasculinized by their upbringing and the society that forces them to treat women as beings on a pedestal.

There is nothing wrong with that, but again, it may cause problems in the bed. Long story short – don’t ask the girl what she wants to do when you’re in bed. You can have a constructive discussion afterwards or before – but not during it. If you implement your logical, thinking mind in the equation of having sex then you may very well have shot yourself in the knee. It will ruin the entire atmosphere of the moment.

If you want her to do something – don’t ask her to do it. Tell her to do it. You’d be surprised to learn just how responsive women get to an unwavering command given by a man while the two of you are having sex. It’s in the nature of most women to respond to male dominance in a favorable way. This won’t make her dislike you – in fact, it will make her even more attracted to you and the act will increase the heat of the moment.

Feel free to maneuver her in space (make sure, of course, that you don’t overdo this and hurt the girl.) Most girls like getting their hair pulled by a man while having sex. Some of them may enjoy being slapped in the butt. The most important thing to do is to let yourself go and feel the moment. You will see that you know exactly what to do while you’re at it. Just don’t overthink it – this is a mistake. Feel it learn more along the way and it will improve your sexual life and sexual technique

Monday, March 5, 2018

7 Ways to Start Improving Your Sex Life Today

It can be a difficult to admit that your sex life is not what you would like it to be but you're not alone. Busy lifestyles and heavy workloads can put pressure on a relationship and especially on your sex life. It is a common problem for most couples in a long term relationship.

There are many people who wish their sex life was better. If you and your partner have good, open communication - which every good relationship should have - then you're halfway to improving your sex life. The topic needs to be approached sensitively. You don't want to scare them with a big heavy talk and a list of demands!

Instead, there are small things you can do every day to start improving the quality of your sex life. Follow these tips below to help set the scene.

1. I bet you...
Play a flirty game with them. Place a little bet on something. Whoever loses has to cook dinner in the other partner's outfit of choice.

2. Flirty fun
It can be easy to overlook how we are interacting with our partner when we're rushed, tired and feeling overwhelmed. Take the time to give them a compliment or smile. Tease and have a laugh. Having fun and enjoying being together are the most important parts of a sexual relationship and can lead to a deeper connection in the bedroom.

3. Look at me!
You need to invest time in improving your sex life and who doesn't like to be paid attention? Get your partner in the mood by asking them about their day, listen and ask questions. Don't fake it! Be genuinely interested but don't overdo it either. Simple, non-sexual strategies can work just as well.

4. Touch me
This one is especially for the ladies. Sit down next to him and 'accidentally' brush your breasts up against his arm. He'll definitely notice.

5. Looking good
Tracksuit pants may be comfortable around the house but they won't light any fires in the boudoir. If you spend most of your time together in the evening, dress to impress, even if you're hanging out to get into your sweats. It will pay off later, even if you're not in the mood tonight.

6. Do you feel sexy?
Do little things to make you feel sexy. Try wearing your favourite underwear or cologne to work. Tell your partner what you're doing - have a giggle over your little secret.

7. Let's play pretend
Nobody else except your partner knows that your bedroom life isn't all you want it to be. Act confidently and you will begin to feel more confident. Other people will notice your positive and self-assured attitude, including your partner. As you begin to feel more confident, you will find it easier to address problems with your partner.

Start slowly and remember how to enjoy your time together. Commit to making time for each other and you will be on the right track to improve your sexual life.

Tuesday, January 23, 2018

6 Erogenous Spots And Love Making Tips To Satisfy Her Sexually!

Women LOVE SEX! That is, women love sex if her partner knows how to massage her sexual pleasure spots using the right love making tips and with the right timing. There's lots to learn and a lifetime to do it. It's a fun way to experiment together. Try these basic techniques at her 6 erogenous spots and she'll love you!
Some may argue that there are more or less female erogenous spots than these. They may point out that women's erogenous spots include their neck, back, back of knees, arms, and so on. They may also say that a woman's brain is not an erogenous zones. My purpose here is to focus on six known spots that CAUSE ORGASMS in women.

1st Spot. Her brain.
Have you ever heard of the phrase, "you get to her body by getting to her head first?" Or, "the brain is the largest sex organ in the body?" You should first try to get your lady relaxed, feeling loved, and ready to go, before you try anything. A resistant woman means no fun and no orgasms!

Communication is a good ice-breaker. Talk in terms of what she likes. Then direct that conversation to some of the naughtiest things she's ever done. Or talk about fantasies she'd like to try. If you get her fully involved, and in the here and now, she can have an intense orgasm without touch. Her brain can cause her to rub herself!

2nd Spot. Her mouth.
If a woman can have a no-touch orgasm, as defined above, then she can surely have one by deep and hot kissing. You'll have to probably insert some naughty talk and tell her what you'd love to do to her, in detail, between kisses. Once she has a mouth orgasm she'll want them again and again. Making out is very special to women.

3rd Spot. Her breasts.
Once you get her heated above as outlined above you can head to her breasts. It's much better if she's heated up enough to guide your hand or mouth to her lovely breasts. Then start slowly, and tease around the nipple. Once you get it in your mouth make sure that you kiss, lick, gently bite, and suck it. Then apply more and more pressure until you are "milking" her breasts in and out with your mouth. It should take about 5-10 minutes.

4th Spot. Her clitoris.
Never head directly to her clitoris before you kiss her, give her some naughty talk, and play with her breasts. The only time I'd recommend that first contact with the clit is if it's part of a sex game and you just agree that you will lick her clit with your first contact.

Start off slowly and tease her with your finger or tongue at the very tip. Use a light and intermittent contact and make her tilt her pelvis for your touch. Less is more at this tender spot.

5th Spot. Her g-spot.
Use a firm one or two-finger touch on her g spot. With your palm up, use a "come here" motion that is firm and regular. It should take only a few minutes to give her this orgasm if you've properly prepared her with the above steps.

6th Spot. Her deep vaginal spot.
This deep vaginal or epicenter spot is located about 8 inches inside her vagina on the top. You can reach it with your long penis, deep vibrations, or even your hot explosion of semen. It shouldn't take more than about 30 strokes if you have the right spot and have prepared her as explained above.

You can use combinations of the above spots and really drive her nuts. Employ some sex games and some spicy ideas and you will have a very turned on woman! This is truly how to give a woman an orgasm!