Masturbation helps you explore your body and figure out what
excites you the most. Not very long time ago masturbation was considered as
some wrong, dangerous and morally unacceptable. This practice was associated
with perverts and freaks and those who are not capable to have regular sexual
intercourse. Even the religious institutions were strongly against this
activity. Luckily, today we are fully aware that none of these things are true
and that masturbation is actually something completely normal, natural and
acceptable sexual behavior and practicing masturbation is not something wrong.
In fact, masturbation is recommend in some cases, because this is the best way
to get to know our body, pleasures, feeling while developing love for ourselves
and our bodies. Women that masturbate regularly usually achieve orgasm very
easy when they have sex with their partner. They know exactly what leads them
to orgasm and they know how to tell their partners what they need. It is a
stereotype to think that only men are masturbating and this belief belongs to
the past. According to many studies only 15% of women have never masturbated in
their life while nearly 30% of women masturbate more than once a week. 10% of
women have practiced masturbation more than once in a day. This last number
seems like too much masturbation. But when can we say that someone is
practicing masturbation too much?
In order to answer this question we need to ask ourselves
whether we can speak about too much sex, too many orgasms and too much
pleasure. If you are burdened with the fact that you have very high sex drive
and that you are thinking about masturbation very frequently, this pressure
that you put on yourself can be more harmful than the act of masturbation or
sex. Probably the best way to determine whether you are having too much sex or
masturbation is to check whether you are capable to function normally.
Sexologists are aware of cases when men and women that use masturbation as a
method to relieve themselves from stress practiced this behavior for more than
5 times a day. If you start feeling that you need to go out of your office in a
middle of a really important business meeting just to masturbate it is
definitely a good idea to seek some help.
As you probably know there are many ways to masturbate.
Different people have different sexual desires. For example, you can use sex toys or
do this activity without them. It is good to know that the number of sex toys
that are available today is huge so you might have a problem to choose a proper
one. A good advice is to avoid sex toys that don’t attract you with their
appearance. It is good to find a toy that provides several types of
stimulation. Women can experiment and create their own sex toys at home.
Finally, don’t forget your fingers. Fingers can help both men and women achieve intense orgasm.
