Tuesday, May 9, 2017
When we hear about lack of libido in a relationship, usually we assume it is a problem of females. The truth is men account for about over 30% of total low libido cases. As a lady, you still can do something to defeat his decrease sex drives. Men (same as women) adore oral sex. If you want a means to get him wild in bed, here are the suggestions on oral sex you can commence.
· Get him cleaned up
Whether receiving or giving oral sex, both have to be comfortable. This will not be possible if either one of you has a bad smell. It will be great if your man cleans himself first. It will be excellent if you both can have a bath together.
· Keep yourself in a comfort zone
If you are not in a relaxed lovemaking position, you will not be able to give him a nice blowjob. If he is standing or sitting, giving you a lot of space for movement, you can kneel on a pillow or sit on a seat
· Feel the neighboring areas
You can give him a cat bath (kissing him all over) and use your hands to "molest" his medial thighs, perineum, and testicles (the area between the anus and genitals) which are all erogenous zones to get him into the mood slowly. To increase the excitement, you can use your fingertips to tickle behind the testes.
· Start licking him
You start by warming the tip of his genitals with your breath. There are a few sensitive areas of the male genitals for you to take note. The tip of the genitals is highly sensitive than the shaft, especially the ring around the head. The underside is sensitive than the side especially in the area proximal to the tip (known as the frenulum). To be effective, you have to focus your licking effort on these erogenous points.
· Take his genitals into your mouth
After playing with the head, you slide your mouth down the shaft while placing your fingers at the base of his genitals (to create a ring). This will prevent you from getting choked if you unexpectedly take in too much of his "ice-cream stick." You should take in one-third to half of the shaft of his "ice-cream stick". With your teeth behind your lips, you compress your lips against his shaft as you slide up and down along his semi-erected manhood. Do this gently at times, relishing the sexual pleasure of your action, and then picking up the pace.
· Alternating between tongue and mouth actions
Once in a while, you can switch back to using your tongue to lick on his frenulum and tip. You can experiment with the diverse types of licks on these two areas apparently by changing the shape or movement of your tongue. To give him more extreme pleasure, you can also twist your neck right and left so that it feels like your mouth is spinning on his penis.
· Applying your hands
If you want to arouse him more during oral sex, you can do so by applying your hands. Using your hands also open the chance of stimulating his testicles and perineum while you keep giving him oral sexual stimulation on his "ice-cream stick.".
· Blowing cold and hot
Oral sex can be fun if you can savor it up by playing with temperature and excitements. You take a sip of warm water, You then gargle it and swallow. Next, you take his penis into your mouth for twenty seconds then put an ice-cube in your mouth before taking in his male organ. You continue the blowjob. The variations in cold and hot will feel perfect for him. The warmth of your mouth combined with the occasional flashes of chilliness will have him on his feet.
· Do not ignore other areas
The scrotum and testicles are extremely sensitive areas that can drive him wild when you lick on his testicles and gently pull his scrotum down.
· Bringing him to climax
You should never be compelled to let him ejaculate in your mouth. It is your choice and is defined by your level of comfort about it. He should not think any less of you about your preference. You can resume the hand stroking through his orgasm.